Sunday, January 31, 2010

Why I love Margaret Cho....


Okay now that you've watched that, and hopefully have been swayed by this amazing revolutionary woman, here is what I think about Margaret Cho and how her humor and use of satire is a vehicle for social change. (I wrote the below entry for a Satire class I took last May...and it was glorious!) 
When I think about satire in a person, I always think of stand up comedians. I love stand up... it takes guts and balls. I’d do it, but I have neither of those things…(…sometimes…) Anyway, comics rely on their humor to entertain, and their tact to make the material relevant. As we said in class, if the material does not ring true to an appropriated audience, it is not funny—it is actually performance suicide. For a satire and/or a parody to be successfully humorous, it must speak a certain truth that responds to something. [Discourse responding to discourse] It must be outlandish, it must be blunt, and it must be appropriated within spaces and audiences. For a stand up comedian to have this on their shoulders as a profession is quite intimidating. But there is one comedian who comes to my mind that combines the razor bluntness of satire and the outrageous exaggerations of parody: Margaret Cho.
For those of you who have not yet had the privilege to feverishly laugh at her stand up, Margaret Cho is an Asian-American, bi-sexual, gay culture loving, George W. Bush hating, liberal feminist activist….who coincidentally happens to be funny for a living. There really is no way to describe her…she’s on YouTube. [Duh.] Look her up…best fifteen minutes you’ll ever spend.
Her ability to make a mockery of herself as a minority speaks to a specific truth about empowering herself. We’ve discussed how satire is a strong tool for empowerment in our culture, especially in the entertainment world. But what Margaret does is awesome because she not only speaks the truth about self empowerment, but she gives voices to communities that need empowerment: the Asian-American community looks up to her because she is not afraid to make blunt comments on the responses to Asian stereotypes…the gay community worships her because she always cracks these vulgar jokes about gay people while still singing the praises of gay culture…(irony much?) She exaggerates many elements of these sub-cultures, sometimes out of proportion, but always knows her audience. Margaret makes a parody out of her own life on stage, with a voice that is drenched in satire. I see her more than a stand up comic, I see her as a performance activist, which is incredibly refreshing to have in mainstream entertainment. She is a loud, provocative, and satirical voice of counter culture in America.
Yes…I know this is only my opinion. Disagree with me please…I LOVE confrontation. But part of my passion is to speak to audiences about cultural issues while making them laugh. I feel like it is my art to speak out to certain issues. The function of art is to comment on culture (Margaret Cho said that and I whole heartedly agree!) That is why I am enrolled in this class, that is why I say the things that I say, and that is also why I am so honest with myself. I will yield my ramblings and conclude with this statement: I still do not understand satire, irony, or parody to the extent of which many people may. But I do understand that it is crucial to be critical of the hypocritical behaviors and actions that exist in our carbon copy society.
 

CBS to air ANTI-ABORTION ad during the SUPERBOWL

Super Bowl Sunday is a week away.... I can already smell the fusion of microwave nachos and Keystone Light. Year after year the Super Bowl is an American tradition for football fans and non-football fans alike to get together on a Sunday afternoon and get their cheap-beer-buzz on. It is cultural phenomena and a media frenzy. The going rate for a 20 second commercial is $1 million, $2 million for a 30 second commercial, and the rates go up from there.

One of the clients that has purchased a 30 second commercial was Focus on Family foundation, a Christian based "family support" organization is sponsoring an ad about the miracle of child birth. Below is a clip from the O'Reily Factor featuring Jehmu Greene, the president of the Women's Media Center.

I know for a liberal democrat or just a simply open minded person, The O'Reily Factor is as easy to stomach watching as Rush Limbaugh is to listen to- However, focus on what Greene has to say about the Christian agenda.

If Bill O'Reily doesn't enrage the feminist inside of you, you need an exorcist.

Below that is another clip of a debate between Greene and the head of the FOF (Focus on Family) Jim Daly.

FOF head, Daly, claims that this ad celebrates life, yet does not argue against pushing a Christian agenda

Okay so I've been relatively calm up to this point.... now it's time to say what I really think:

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME CBS?!?!

Since when is it appropriate to even address controversial issues like abortion on prime-time television? Whether you are pro-choice or anti-choice, Christian or not, it is not right to air a commercial that pushes moral values on the public. At least that is what I think (so if you do, please disagree with me and explain yourself....)

Secondly, this isn't an award show or the season finale of Jersey Shore (which has a reported 4.8 million viewers....gross) this is the Super Bowl....THE Super Bowl. The mecca for commercials, the host of fabulously awesome half-time shows, and overall media madness! February 7th, 2010, when the Saints and the Colts will battle to the death (whoo! Go Saints!) half the people who will watch the Super Bowl will not be football fans. They watch the Super Bowl because it is a fun, social gathering and (to them) an excuse to get drunk on a Sunday afternoon. It's fun! Clients of ad agencies know this about the audiences who will tune in and so does the host network, CBS. To air a commercial that manipulatively pushes the agenda of marginalized values, especially targeting to women, is just fucked up.

And thirdly... let's think about this. Okay so I don't watch football on a regular basis, but I do follow my favorite teams and catch up with what is going on in the NFL. For me the Super Bowl is not the only time I watch/enjoy football. However, as I said before, there are tons of people out there who watch the Super Bowl because they want to hang out with friends, because their favorite artist is performing at the half-time show, and because they just don't want to feel left out being the only non-hung-over person the following Monday.
But riddle me this fellow femmes..... how many times has someone said to you: "Yeah I only watch the Super Bowl for the halftime show and the awesome commercials." For the awesome, funniest, most talked about, most revenue making, most YouTube'ed commercials of the year... this is why most people (non-football fans) watch the Super Bowl, for the commercials. The entertainment addicted, consumer cycle of advertising works its spell on that special Sunday.
My point is, however, when non-football fans respond to watching the Super Bowl for the commercials...how many of those people are women? Let's be real here: more men follow football than women. I'm not being gender insensitive and I do not have stats to back this up but I think I'm pretty on target with that claim. So when tuning in on Super Bowl Sunday, ladies, will you be watching the commercials more than the game? Probably. The bottom line is that the FOF, Jim Daly, and the CBS network are fully aware of the gendered social paradigm surrounding the Super Bowl. This was a perfect opportunity for them to push an agenda on the people who will be concentrating more on the ads than on the game.

If you want to argue, agree, discuss, or share anything else....by all means.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Let's start off just by saying....

...that being comfortable with your sexuality is not an easy thing.  It can take a lifetime and a half depending on the person's situation or lifestyle to fully accept themselves for who they are. Whether you are gay, a person of color, a person of size, man, woman, or someone who feels like they were born with the wrong body - it is a difficult journey to discover who we are as people. What most people do not realize is that being content with your sexuality is the same exact journey.

If we cannot be comfortable with our sexuality, with our bodies, with our lifestyles, then how can we as humans ever be happy with ourselves?

Let me also just propose this: Think about the times in your life when you felt the most appreciated, the most attractive, and the most loved...the most comfortable - were you by yourself? Was it you making yourself feel sexually desired? Or was someone with you, provoking these positive thoughts, bringing out the "appealing and sexual" side of you? I can respond to that question by honestly saying: No. When I think about the times when I've felt loved or the sexiest I've ever felt, it was someone else making me feel that way. This is not to say that I need someone to make me feel good about myself....but it sure does help...right?

This issue is why I decided to start L.U.S.T. - Listening and Understanding Sexuality Together - a forward thinking feminist support activist group that is dedicated to the promotion of self-love and body image awareness. L.U.S.T. has given me and several others the opportunity to express frustration and create appreciation for one's own body. It is so imperative to feel comfortable in one's body. But if you don't feel comfortable in the skin you are in- always wanting to change or rearrange features, starving yourself, or covering yourself up- who's life are you living? Why is the body treated as a project always under construction? And furthermore, if we as women and men, but ESPECIALLY women, cannot express ourselves sexually how on earth will we evolve as a human race?

This blog is a free space for anyone to post anything they'd like having to do with sexuality, love, happiness, body image, equality....whatever motivates or inspires you to express something, do it here. This is not a place for insecurities, it is a place for social change. It is a place for loving yourself for exactly who you are.... and if I have my theories correct, that means that this is a place of revolutionizing the ways we think about the world around us. So let's get started by saying: LUST yourself and join our revolution.